If you assume that you can have a fair conversation when all indicators are screaming that the conversation is unfair, you are not using your energetic Sword Of Clarity.

No one can use it for you.

No one can stop you from using it.

This could be a useful distinction to make ongoingly. Why would you ever put your Sword away?

I called a fellow Trainer Pather to tell her the news. I wanted to tell her one-on-one in person. She had a reaction about being left behind and also about it being unfair. I said: A world that is 'fair' is dead, kaput. It is a fantasy that we all should be treated the same under the same circumstances because being treated the same does not change where we are anyway. Nor does the titles, the recognitions or the annointments. I want and chose to belive that the unfairness that is created conciously is a tool for doing the next thing that responds to a real necessity from the game world, from Gaia. Only the results will survive all the titles, including 'lab trainer' the ‘lab trainer’ title is the shirt that I am wearing today that I dress to go into the world and do a job that is needed